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Wedding Attire for Groom and
Bride
The guys have it easy. Pick up the tuxedos they rented months
ago right before the wedding, put them on and then be sure to
return all the pieces in decent condition right after the
wedding. The women, however, don't get so lucky. For the bride,
her quest for the prefect wedding dress means hours poring over
bridal magazines in search of the perfect look and months of
agonizing dieting and humiliating dress fittings. Plus she
needs all the accessories. Unfortunately, selecting wedding
attire for both the groom and bride is something that cannot be
avoided, unless they're headed to Las Vegas or the county
courthouse.
Wedding attire is one of those wedding tasks you need to tackle
well in advance, especially if you're planning your wedding
during the height of the season. Almost as soon as you announce
the wedding date, but only after you have put together a
wedding budget, you need to begin planning the attire. Now
that's not something you have to tell most women. Many already
know the type of wedding dress they want because they've been
planning this big day for most of their lives! But still, most
brides will spend 4 to 6 weeks shopping, trying on and
pondering wedding attire before it's even purchased.
And after this 1 – 2 month period, brides still need ample time
for special ordering and custom fitting. They'll need about 3
separate fittings so that the wedding dress looks absolutely
perfect on the big day. It's a good idea to allow extra time
for unexpected delays and emergencies.
Most brides devote a considerable chunk of the wedding budget
to the dress and accessories. It certainly doesn't need to be
this way, and there are plenty of options for looking stunning
without spending thousands. How much will be spent is a really
important point to discuss beforehand, agree on, and follow
through with. The bride will be center stage, lots of photos
will be taken, and it's normal to want to look better than
ever.
To help the discussion along, begin with talking about the type
of wedding you both want – elegant, informal, themed, seasonal,
outdoors, or something else. The wedding attire that the groom
and bride select is going to set the tone for every other
aspect of the wedding including what others wear, the color
scheme, decorations, invitations, flowers, venues,
transportation, everything.
And in addition to the wedding dress, the bride needs
accessories including the veil, headpiece, train, shoes,
undergarments, stockings, garter, handbag, and jewelry. Much of
it can be ordered along with the wedding dress, but other
accessories will have to be purchased over the coming months.
Be sure to factor in the costs for these accessories when
planning the wedding attire budget.
And as was mentioned in the beginning, men's wedding attire
follows the lead of the bride's. Men need only locate a tuxedo
rental outlet 6 – 12 months before the date, get fitted and
pick up their tuxes, which come with all the accessories
they'll need – cummerbund, bow tie, vest, even shoes!
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