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An American Wedding Is a Family
Affair
An American wedding often becomes a family affair right from
the start. Once the bride and groom agree to marry, they rush
to tell their families the great news. They are excited about
the prospects and want to share their joy with those that are
closest to them.
The American wedding tradition suggests a party to announce the
engagement to friends and family. The engagement party is often
the responsibility of the parents of the bride who are
responsible for much of the expense and planning. The
engagement party is fun, and it also provides an opportunity
for the two families to meet for the first time in many
cases.
The American wedding is often planned by the bride and her
mother with some input from the groom and his family. The
parents of the bride pay so many of the expenses so they do get
to make many of the decisions. The wedding usually takes place
in a very special setting. The American wedding often takes
place in a religious center which is usually very picturesque.
These places offer some beauty and built in facilities right
from the start. The church will probably have an organ or piano
for the basic music needs. These institutions are designed to
help people with special ceremonies.
An American Wedding Is a Ceremony and a Party
An American wedding starts with a ceremony of love and
commitment. This is usually a romantic ritual with all of the
friends and family there to witness the happy union. The bride
and groom say vows to show their love and commitment in the
course of the ceremony. The setting is often spectacular, and
the wedding party is dressed in beautiful clothes. At the end
of the ceremony, the bride and groom are legally bound by this
commitment. The American wedding is romantic, but also a legal
procedure to bind the couple until death or divorce do they
part.
An American wedding is also a party. After the ceremony, the
bride and groom meet with their friends and family at the
reception that has been planned for months, maybe more than a
year, in advance. The reception is a time to eat, drink and
socialize with old and new friends and acquaintances. The
festivities center on the wedding couple, and the guests have
the opportunity to offer their good wishes and wedding gifts.
American weddings are wonderful occasions with joy and
happiness for all.
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